Why We Struggle With Identity….

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. (2 Corinthians 5:17, NKJV)

Before I get to the blog post proper, I almost never deal with NKJV.  Not a knock on it, I just usually study from the ESV or the NRSV. <shrugs>

About the Scripture itself though. Do y’all see this here? It’s kind of a big deal.  Galatians 5:16-23 talks about the nature of the flesh, the nature of the Spirit, and how they do battle with each other, to literally prevent us from doing what we want (also see Romans 7:14-23).  But why does this matter as it pertains to identity.

Well, in the last entry, we talked about identity having four real elements to it: (1) Being made in God’s image and likeness, (2) purpose, (3) heritage, and (4) race/ethnicity.  Well, most people don’t get authentically saved in their formative years (please don’t believe the statistics).  Because most kids have a fundamental rebellion in their teen years (because they have to explore, more on that next time) and many don’t get to experience God for real until their 20s.  This is when their heritage and race have been well established, and sometimes they are already pursuing (what they at least think) will be purpose.

I can’t speak to everyone, but in my teen years, I knew there was a God and that He was supreme in the cosmos.  But I didn’t know God. I went to church sometimes, and considered myself a Christian. And then when I was in college, a young lady did street evangelism ministry with me.

Her: Where are you going when you die?
Me: Heaven.
Her: Why.
Me: Because I’m a good person.
God was like, “That’s adorable…”

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But why did I give the wrong answer?

My identity didn’t line up, despite the fact that I thought I was a Christian.
A few years later, I got saved, and got this answer right. (Although there were so many more to get wrong after)

I would say that once we get saved and become that new creature, we have to switch all of our thinking over to that of Christ: mind, heart, nature…we even have to shift our gifting and talent to Christ…despite the fact that God put those in us to begin with.  And that conversion is tough, because we know our heritage and our race (most times) our whole life, but most of the time we struggle with the “made in God’s image and likeness” part because we just weren’t wired that way.  It takes a long walkthroughs in the Scripture, fervent prayer and supplication, and often years of long suffering to get to this point.  Over the next couple of entries, we will juxtapose identity to our stages of life (natural growth), and our stages of spiritual growth. Join us then, okay?



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Nelson Hawkins, Jr.

How you doing everyone? I'm Nelson Hawkins Jr. It's a pleasure to be here! Let me tell you a bit about myself. I am a native of New Orleans, LA, and have been living in Houston over 10 years. I am, believe it or not, a scientist that found education. Comprehensive education...whether we are considering the sciences, mathematics, fine arts, technical arts, or spiritual growth, I want everyone to genuinely understand how something works in theory, in practicum, and have the capacity to use that knowledge to make sure something somewhere gets better. On AKnowingSpirit, I will be providing practical and relational Biblical knowledge to application in every aspect of our lives. Come check out my posts.

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